Andletthewindsoftheheavendancebetweenyou.

Loveoneanother，butmakenotabondageoflove.

Letitratherbeamovingseabetweentheshoresofyoursouls.

Filleachother\'scup，butdrinknotfromonecup.

Giveoneanotherofyourbread，buteatnotofthesameloaf.

Singanddancetogetherandbejoyous，butleteachofyoubealone，

Evenasthestringsofalutearealone，thoughtheyquiverwiththesame music.

Giveyourhearts，butnotintoeachother\'skeeping，

Foronlythehandoflifecancontainyourhearts.

Andstandtogether，yetnottooneartogether，

Forthepillarsofthetemplestandapart，

AndtheoaktreeandthecyPgrownotinshadow.\

MinistertoBride:

Doyou____________，knowingthisman\'sloveforyouandreturningit， realizinghisstrengthsandlearningfromthem，recognizinghisweaknessesand helpinghimtoovercomethem，take____________tobeyourlawfullywedded husband?